I have a good friend, whom I have been close to for most of my life.
I sent her an email because I was having a hard time with something, so I needed to talk.
It was a very (un)pleasant surprise to find out there her husband looks at the emails also.
I don't know if they have one account or if he just randomly checks them, but it bothered me. I feel like I can no longer turn to her if I need to talk because I can't email her.
I feel like my privacy has been compromised. Now I can't help but think back and wonder what else I have sent her, and if he read it? I want to say something to her, but I can't.
The reason I found out is because he emailed me back and kinda scolded me. What the hell? I was mad, I was hurt, I was beside myself. I want to say something, I want to say nothing... I am confused... and miserable. What the hell?